tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post1500223120561308548..comments2024-03-28T15:19:47.515+08:00Comments on Tony White - Graffiti: Trauma & desensitization **Tony Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-77767111883313538342009-06-27T10:48:39.842+08:002009-06-27T10:48:39.842+08:00What about? I'm in a particularly good mood th...What about? I'm in a particularly good mood this morning. But i can rough it up for you if you like<br /><br />rosesroseshttp://mymindurplace.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-73645189204673405282009-06-27T10:30:31.976+08:002009-06-27T10:30:31.976+08:00Yes Roses
Lets have an argument. I think we would...Yes Roses<br /><br />Lets have an argument. I think we would be good at that<br /><br />GraffitiTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-6112434663579172922009-06-27T10:28:05.814+08:002009-06-27T10:28:05.814+08:00I don't know if i was making a point, it appea...I don't know if i was making a point, it appears that what you said makes good sense.<br /><br />Did you want to have an argument about something? I will argue with you if you like. *Shrugs* It may be quite boring for you to know that you will win. Its your call.<br /><br />I hope this weekend is a bit exciting for you in a nice way. Its nice when that happens.<br /><br />Cheers... rosesroseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-6304973872103705532009-06-27T08:58:55.773+08:002009-06-27T08:58:55.773+08:00Yes Roses,
I have control of my place and everyone...Yes Roses,<br />I have control of my place and everyone has control of thiers. And your point is?<br /><br />GraffitiTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-71503266508936034162009-06-27T08:57:53.387+08:002009-06-27T08:57:53.387+08:00You better watch out Sara with those comments abou...You better watch out Sara with those comments about research and scientific knowledge particularly in relation to the helping professions. I will launch into a monologue on my soap box about the status afforded such knowledge.<br /><br />If you are numb why don't you do some resensitizing as I have suggested above?<br /><br />GraffitiTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-17135479208988796762009-06-26T19:11:18.151+08:002009-06-26T19:11:18.151+08:00Oh... so we're your fodder. Well i guess since...Oh... so we're your fodder. Well i guess since its your place, that we like to invade, that's makes it ok. Its true - you have full control in it all.<br /><br />I've got to say - its weird getting to meet here in this cyber space way. And i'm glad and am grateful to you for allow us (me) to come and comment here. Thank you.<br /><br />Being lurked... is that anything like being leeched? Eww! Don't like sluggy leechy type things. *Shudder*roseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-22063263539474477592009-06-26T18:05:39.486+08:002009-06-26T18:05:39.486+08:00No Roses,
I don't feel like that, like I am o...No Roses,<br /><br />I don't feel like that, like I am owned or taken for granted. I have no trouble stating what I want and if I feel things are not equal in a relationship in this way I have no trouble dealing with it.<br /><br />In the blogosphere I don't feel I have to respond to anyone, because I don't. In previous times I have simply not responded if I feel that is the thing needed. I don't owe anyone and they don't owe me in the blogosphere.<br /><br />Regarding stalking? There are lurkers on this blog. Those who come and read and stay to lurk and never make any comments. So I don't feel stalked but I do feel lurked.<br /><br />I can always shut it down an time I want. At the moment I get a lot from the comments and as I have said in the past it has helped me to formulate ideas that will end up in some form of professional publication at some time. Which as I keep banging on about is my primary goal here<br /><br />I am sure glad though that you come and comment Roses. It has been grand getting to meet you in this cyber space way<br /><br />GraffitiTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-57387625349871409062009-06-26T17:50:14.122+08:002009-06-26T17:50:14.122+08:00Tony?
Is it difficult for you (as soon as people ...Tony?<br /><br />Is it difficult for you (as soon as people know what you do) to feel ok when you're in a group of random people - like at a party where there are some people you know and some you don't know?<br /><br />I feel as though i stalk you. Obviously you get that in the cyber world but do you also get that in the real world of life?<br /><br />Do you feel (cause i can imagine people being jealous and protective of your time with them individually) that you are owned by your family, clients, blog people?<br /><br />Do you ever feel over looked and taken for granted by others? Like you are a resource and nothing more? Just people fodder?<br /><br />Do you feel as though people pay for you so they - in a sense - own you and because so many people own a part of you, you feel torn in so many different directions?<br /><br />I was just thinking. If i were you, i think i would.<br /><br />I'm so sorry for my part in all of that stuff. Its wrong but its what you do - consequences i guess.<br /><br />I really hope you have a lovely and surprisingly exciting week end. You deserve all good things.roseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-15395854361398408062009-06-26T07:32:03.199+08:002009-06-26T07:32:03.199+08:00Some people never recover. Somehow they can never ...Some people never recover. Somehow they can never be resensized again. Their bodies begin to break down and they are unable to do things that would seem to be normal for them.<br /><br />Free child really does make THAT much of a difference to our lives? That's so frightening. I would think that pretty much most the people I know have cut off FC. That means we're not whole then?<br /><br />This is a yuck post Tony. A bit sad.<br /><br />My exam time is over and i'm free for a whole sememster. Well... except for my counselling course. Bit excited about that! *Giggles* Yay!roseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-88760470046563180452009-06-25T20:29:04.148+08:002009-06-25T20:29:04.148+08:00What about the research that shows that those who ...What about the research that shows that those who go through debriefing do worse than those who don't?<br /><br />And god, I could write books on desensitization in medical training. I think that's most of what's wrong with me now. I've turned off every normal reaction of disgust and despair and gore. And it leaves me just numb.mysadalteregohttp://myalterego.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com