tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post189369224084148165..comments2024-03-28T15:19:47.515+08:00Comments on Tony White - Graffiti: Male mid life crisisTony Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-91244768605666074002010-09-29T01:11:58.792+08:002010-09-29T01:11:58.792+08:00Zbig – yes, the next career is going to be much be...Zbig – yes, the next career is going to be much better...no doubt about it. Less money, but definitely more fun. <br /><br />Tony –I won’t pretend to know what a mid-life crisis is from a man’s perspective. I’ve seen it happen to a few, unfortunately for their wives and children. I’m planning on something more like a mid-life major upgrade with no crisis involved.KYLadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08386201292445132711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-90616291055968181822010-09-28T19:42:24.738+08:002010-09-28T19:42:24.738+08:00Hi Zbig,
Good comment. That subconscious always se...Hi Zbig,<br />Good comment. That subconscious always seems to be lurking around somewhere there in the back ground.<br /><br />Regards<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-72314760045427961852010-09-28T15:49:40.108+08:002010-09-28T15:49:40.108+08:00KYLady,
at least maybe your "next life" ...KYLady,<br />at least maybe your "next life" will have more to offer to your FC? <br />If I change my career I hope mine would do so.Zbighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10828241285872286311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-79342649970313451172010-09-28T15:39:04.932+08:002010-09-28T15:39:04.932+08:00yeah Tony, I wouldn't like it to sound like I ...yeah Tony, I wouldn't like it to sound like I "accuse" you of my feelings or anything like "complain" - I enter this excellent blog perfectly aware that this "bunch of words" may draw my attention to something latent, hidden, subconscious - and I like it :)Zbighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10828241285872286311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-80722471667255774012010-09-28T08:15:09.819+08:002010-09-28T08:15:09.819+08:00Hello KYLady,
One does not hear so much of female...Hello KYLady,<br /><br />One does not hear so much of females doing the same sort of things males do with the midlife crisis thing I talk of. Maybe they do but in just a different way.<br /><br />Maybe I chose not a good word with 'fireworks' as that tends to have positive conatations. A psychological explosion can be a depressive episode or an alcohol problem and the like. There are plenty of men who do not have the mid life crisis like I discussed and instead end up embittered heavy drinkers until the day they die because of prolonged FC deprivation.<br /><br />GraffitiTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-72743486346038178562010-09-28T08:09:15.598+08:002010-09-28T08:09:15.598+08:00Hi Zbig,
All I put together was bunch of words th...Hi Zbig,<br /><br />All I put together was bunch of words that will have different psychological meaning to those who read it. <br /><br />If you had the reaction that you did then that sounds like a trigger to me which means the FC is feeling neglected.<br /><br />Cheers<br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-90904164231293027252010-09-28T05:58:48.104+08:002010-09-28T05:58:48.104+08:00Zbig,
I had the same reaction to this post that y...Zbig,<br /><br />I had the same reaction to this post that you did – and I’m NOT male. I’ve been busy raising kids, working a thankless job in a giant corporation for over 25 years, taking care of aging grandparents, and back in school for the past three years preparing for my next life. I’m pretty sure my FC is in a coma if it isn’t totally dead. "Psychological explosion," says Tony??? I say, "Bring on the fireworks!"KYLadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08386201292445132711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-30975015225148390792010-09-28T03:32:51.574+08:002010-09-28T03:32:51.574+08:00this is something I should track in myself as I am...this is something I should track in myself as I am in the prime years :)<br /><br />timely post, however I wonder if I hadn't read this on my way home from work, would my FC feel such sentiment to those lost opportunities? Or is this entry a trigger? (tonight I'm like "I don't feel like washing you and stuff, just go to sleep asap and I would like to play or get drunk or go out or something (but need to wake up tomorrow at six, so will go to bed instead ;(<br /><br />And are women any different with respect to these matters?Zbighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10828241285872286311noreply@blogger.com