tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post4308711682809504913..comments2024-03-29T14:00:27.291+08:00Comments on Tony White - Graffiti: Physical intimacy**Tony Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-71246078824207016022009-07-19T17:49:46.907+08:002009-07-19T17:49:46.907+08:00"But if he didn't find it erotic and was ..."But if he didn't find it erotic and was being forced against his will then I would suggest that he would not get an erection..."<br /><br />Oh ok, we're not disagreeing here.roseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-53339029629054649432009-07-15T16:47:59.712+08:002009-07-15T16:47:59.712+08:00Kahless,
It's not early on set dementia is it?...Kahless,<br />It's not early on set dementia is it?<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-923688498317007612009-07-15T16:47:20.018+08:002009-07-15T16:47:20.018+08:00Well I agree with you Roses about abuse being abus...Well I agree with you Roses about abuse being abuse and I understand your anger.<br /><br />I don't think we are disagreeing here are we?<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-17192854758739913332009-07-15T11:26:54.224+08:002009-07-15T11:26:54.224+08:00Actually Tony,
I believe a man or a woman, or a m...Actually Tony,<br /><br />I believe a man or a woman, or a male or female child, could be unwillingly forced into having sex. It makes it a bit difficult to call it 'rape' then but if its sexual intercourse against the individuals will then that's what it is. I don't really care what other people think - whether overly intelligent or not - things are only impossible if they're not possible and people are amazing creatures in that; pretty much anything seems to be possible for a human being.<br /><br />I think these people carry shame and guilt and perhaps more so because the unconcentual sexual act happened quietly without the physical brutality and they can be fooled or fool themselves into believing that they were willingly involved in the incident/s.<br /><br />That just makes me so angry!<br /><br />Abuse is abuse whether physical, emotional, mental or spiritual.roseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-27229541458260148812009-07-14T04:48:28.647+08:002009-07-14T04:48:28.647+08:00I forgot what I was going to say once I read all t...I forgot what I was going to say once I read all the comments above!<br /><br />Oh well.Kahlesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00500615451909999365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-23346449647253156992009-07-12T09:51:31.797+08:002009-07-12T09:51:31.797+08:00Hi Evan,
Nurturing Parent sounds good as well. Ma...Hi Evan,<br /><br />Nurturing Parent sounds good as well. Maybe even through in a bit of Rebellious Child to boot and see what happens then!<br /><br />As you say CP is probably not the way to go.<br /><br />Cheers<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-28165006078917237722009-07-12T09:49:39.853+08:002009-07-12T09:49:39.853+08:00That is an interesting article April.
I am not to...That is an interesting article April. <br />I am not too sure what you are saying about the asterix though.<br /><br />I would agree that people can easily switch between feelings once they are in a state of arousal. Aggression and sexual arousal are physiologically quite similar and this is the reason often cited why in Domestic violence the man can rape the woman at some point.<br /><br />Some men would find being forced to sex by a woman erotic and thus physical arousal can occur but that means he is not 100% against the sex because the arousal makes it attractive for him so in that sense he is not being raped. But if he didn't find it erotic and was being forced against his will then I would suggest that he would not get an erection and theoretically the explanation is that Free Child is not involved at all.<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-33395463818900345012009-07-12T07:29:53.782+08:002009-07-12T07:29:53.782+08:00I think good sex can also involve nurturing parent...I think good sex can also involve nurturing parent (feeling cherished) and adult (hmm - that didn't work this time). Critical parent? Perhaps, No don't do that it doesn't feel good.Evanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13355215688351759230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-11575960605710356742009-07-11T23:49:41.960+08:002009-07-11T23:49:41.960+08:00Also, men can be raped by a woman?...so the part a...Also, men can be raped by a woman?...so the part about if men don't want it, it isn't happening needs an asterisk or something.<br />http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,973073,00.htmlAprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13545902890959118689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-20126488097910853972009-07-11T17:16:05.648+08:002009-07-11T17:16:05.648+08:00A lot has been said and written about him Roses.
...A lot has been said and written about him Roses.<br /><br />Also he wrote an enormous amount himself over a long period of time on a wide variety of topics and thus if you read someone making comment about him (like Wiki does) one needs to take it cautiously. <br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-88373789281527994372009-07-11T17:15:03.727+08:002009-07-11T17:15:03.727+08:00Well, if you're going to make one - make 2. It...Well, if you're going to make one - make 2. It'll be cheaper for part aquisition. I'll buy one off you.<br /><br />I think it only collected data of some kind on the energy expelled and stuff like that (as you well know cheeky pants) but there had to read an orgasm there had to be an orgasm. I think even Mr Einstin had a go - if i read it correctly. *Giggles* Hmm, puts all these old professors in a whole new light doesn't it?<br /><br />But as i said orgasms are a shared thing i think.<br /><br />I can't believe you have a book with assembly instructions! I'm totally mind blown!<br /><br />I think i'm going to get some rest now - this week has been harrowing to say the least.<br /><br />Thanks for the giggles and the... thoughts.<br /><br />Nighty nightroseshttp://mymindurplace.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-17288228088909794052009-07-11T17:07:50.238+08:002009-07-11T17:07:50.238+08:00Actually, i don't think an orgasm is as good o...Actually, i don't think an orgasm is as good or fun on your own. I don't think it was designed to be that way.<br /><br />I read up a little on wickapedia (sp?) and he seems to be quite a sensible fellow (Mr Reich). I think his thoughts on the energies (Orgasmic or orgone energy) releases line up with the way things are. He was a very observant chap wasn't he?<br /><br />Cheers...roseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-81256476635583855722009-07-11T17:03:56.785+08:002009-07-11T17:03:56.785+08:00No leg pulling here Roses,
the orgone box is a ri...No leg pulling here Roses,<br /><br />the orgone box is a rigey digey thing. <br /><br />I have never seen them on sale but I have a book on how to make them. So I might make one!<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-57602452649280522122009-07-11T16:55:30.713+08:002009-07-11T16:55:30.713+08:00Oh my goodness! An Orgone Box? Are they available ...Oh my goodness! An Orgone Box? Are they available in Kmart or Big W ... the salvation army? Ohh, perhaps not a second hand one - eww!<br /><br />I'm all intrigued now. Have you ever had a go of one? Is it weird?<br /><br />Apart from the embarrassing part of it all - it sounds like fun to me. Would you post the picture? Please? So fun!<br /><br />Are you having me on. Is the orgon box real? I feel that perhaps it may be in your character to pull my leg just to get a giggle. Cheeky!roseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-12303081833938408212009-07-11T16:34:08.552+08:002009-07-11T16:34:08.552+08:00Glad you like the post Roses,
Sex and release? W...Glad you like the post Roses,<br /><br />Sex and release? Would would get a lot of agreeance on that from Wilhelm Reich, who, if you don't know is one of the most influential writers in all the psychological literature. <br /><br />He posited that one could cure neurosis by having orgasms.<br /><br />Now before you discard him as a complete ‘quack’ have a think about it. If sex is FC to FC then having an orgasm is cathecticing an ego state that many have trouble with. In psychological terms it is no different than treating oneself to something nice like good food or a hug and so on.<br /><br />Most people in western culture don’t have enough FC and so much treatment of neurosis is getting to, an encouraging the expression of FC which is what sex does. <br /><br />He says a lot more about the psychological health promoting factors of the orgasm that I cannot go into here but he did invent the orgone box. Clients sat in the orgone box and had orgasms in it which helped cure their neurosis. I have a photogrpah of one that I could post if you like<br /><br />GraffitiTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-69088963373764775462009-07-11T16:20:01.553+08:002009-07-11T16:20:01.553+08:00Not only Conforming Child to get pregnant. I think...Not only Conforming Child to get pregnant. I think that when a man is under stress at work or family stuff (what ever) that he is dreadfully in need of an orgasm. I don't know why i know (believe) this but it has always been in my mind. Whether i'm in the mood or not - if he needs some release, then he's going to get it... and good!<br /><br />Sex is nice. Mostly really nice. But it's also necessary. Its a health thing i think.<br /><br />I have no idea where i heard that from (the release in orgasm thing) but for some reason i believe its really important... and fun.<br /><br />This is such a good post. I guess its more of an informational reading than a practical help one - but really good.<br /><br />There's also times when i really need sex and he obliges (i think he likes it too though) and also times when i'm upset or something and he feels that i need a little more activity. Perhaps he thinks that keeping me busy will help to keep my mind off the stressful situation? *Shrugs* Whatever...<br /><br />Gosh its good to be back! Happy Saturday!roseshttp://mymindurplace.blogspirit.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-15152802482331655012009-07-11T08:46:45.880+08:002009-07-11T08:46:45.880+08:00Hello April,
Upon reflection I will remove that p...Hello April,<br /><br />Upon reflection I will remove that picture of the woman and crocodile later today. I pirated it from her blog. If she ever stumbled across it in the context that it is used she would probably be mortified.<br /><br />Good to hear from you<br /><br />GraffitiTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-4008112311586536012009-07-11T03:12:51.689+08:002009-07-11T03:12:51.689+08:00Your choice of images is always interesting...espe...Your choice of images is always interesting...especially the woman on the crocodile. ?!?!<br /><br />I had never thought of sex being a FC-FC exchange. Interesting.<br /><br />Also, excessive drinking causes physical responses that inhibit the ability of a man, not just blocking the FC.Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13545902890959118689noreply@blogger.com