tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post4546815060559107680..comments2024-03-28T15:19:47.515+08:00Comments on Tony White - Graffiti: Adult ego state strengthening - Part 2 **Tony Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-80980421149760667832010-06-08T18:46:43.686+08:002010-06-08T18:46:43.686+08:00Hi Tony,
I like your example, and it was funny. L...Hi Tony,<br /><br />I like your example, and it was funny. Like Roses said I also think it has to do with slipping out of A into C. In addition, awareness that colleague may be aware of one's illegal (on job) activity (like one is aware of his) may affect P and produce some kind of internal (between P and C) gambling Game. That was my assumption, please advise :)<br /><br />Ciao,<br />MirkoAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13918872072680167575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-6807679492432438242010-06-08T08:49:15.903+08:002010-06-08T08:49:15.903+08:00Hello Mirko,
Good question and there are few answ...Hello Mirko,<br /><br />Good question and there are few answers and Roses has kind of answered it first up.<br /><br />I was trying to be funny and it did not work, is the first answer.<br /><br />When one behaves out of character people tend to notice it. This also relates to the psychology of swearing. Swearing can be an effective means of communicating. First how ever one my only swear very infrequently.<br /><br />If one swears often people get used to it with you and generally turn off and you get heard even less.<br /><br />However if one swears only infrequently then people will notice it when you do and what you say will have more impact in that way. I rarely mention internet porn and in this instance my unconscious FC just put it in there, it wasn't a conscious decision to use that example. Not too sure why I used it there but I did.<br /><br />Cheers<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-12891024298851316392010-06-08T07:51:15.266+08:002010-06-08T07:51:15.266+08:00OOO I'm going to take a guess at this one Mirk...OOO I'm going to take a guess at this one Mirko. Hope you don't mind, if you do, don't read it ok?<br /><br />I think that choosing to buy porn is a C type thing and not so much an A type thing? Is that why Tony?<br /><br />rosesroseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-74794023075974160422010-06-07T21:37:50.186+08:002010-06-07T21:37:50.186+08:00"I am looking at my computer and it is asking..."I am looking at my computer and it is asking me if I want to buy porn" - why did you use this example?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13918872072680167575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-70465777037572035102010-06-01T10:20:07.806+08:002010-06-01T10:20:07.806+08:00Hello Zbig,
Good to hear you have overcome your di...Hello Zbig,<br />Good to hear you have overcome your dissonance.<br />Your last sentence makes sense and does seem to clear up the conflict.<br /><br />In terms of the structure of the personality main stream theory would say that the P+C are from the past and the A is the present.<br /><br />interesting mapping that you do.<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-31529967895382039302010-05-31T05:39:11.664+08:002010-05-31T05:39:11.664+08:00as usual, I wholly accept it intellectually but le...as usual, I wholly accept it intellectually but leave the practical exercises for later :)<br /><br />some time ago I tried to map the TA ego states to different time "zones".<br /><br />First I mapped Parent to Past - no effort here.<br />Then Child - where to put it? - I decided Present - just H&N<br />So I was left with Adult and my intuition was telling me "Present, man" but then there wouldn't be anyone caring for future so I explained myself "Ok, Adult is operating now, but he is concerned with the future output (sometimes very immediate future I might want to add)" - so finally I put the Adult in the Future box. <br /><br />So, your assigning P+C to Past and A to Present kinda shook my world but I have already overcome this dissonance like that : you said where it comes from and my 'mapping' was meant to explain where (when is a better word) it takes care of.Zbighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10828241285872286311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-35172435938985863462010-05-30T18:12:17.943+08:002010-05-30T18:12:17.943+08:00I'm feeling a bit lonely.
I'm going to be...I'm feeling a bit lonely.<br /><br />I'm going to bed.<br /><br />Good night... rosesroseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-20700265815933540512010-05-30T15:06:43.150+08:002010-05-30T15:06:43.150+08:00That's a whole lot of home work for any reader...That's a whole lot of home work for any reader Tony. Wow!<br /><br />Its raining cats and dogs (and the occasional shower of horses and elephants) here at the moment. As soon a these animal precipitation hits the gound they turn into water. Hmmm, very strange.<br /><br />Strange or not... believe me... that's a LOT of water!<br /><br />Cheers to you Mr Graffiti Sir!roseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.com