tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post5462777162257922412..comments2024-03-28T15:19:47.515+08:00Comments on Tony White - Graffiti: Family systems and illnessTony Whitehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-18241808431852422212010-01-02T07:56:41.051+08:002010-01-02T07:56:41.051+08:00Hello Kahless,
maybe your new work role will prov...Hello Kahless,<br /><br />maybe your new work role will prove to be friutful and good for you in 2010. I hope so.<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-1958922971796703862010-01-02T03:48:23.471+08:002010-01-02T03:48:23.471+08:00Graffiti,
I have just not been blogging so much l...Graffiti,<br /><br />I have just not been blogging so much lately, just a lot going on in my life, particularly with work. I will probably be taking on a new role in 2010 but the uncertainty has been tough.Kahlesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00500615451909999365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-14304106206278087562009-12-25T09:41:47.371+08:002009-12-25T09:41:47.371+08:00Hello Kahless and all the best for 2010 to you and...Hello Kahless and all the best for 2010 to you and your kin.<br /><br />Just had a christmas clean out of my blog roll and those I had not had any communication with for some time I thought would no longer want to be here. If you want me to replace you I certainly will.<br /><br />Merry Xmas<br /><br />GraffitiTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-44942542032386941552009-12-25T09:39:17.254+08:002009-12-25T09:39:17.254+08:00And a ho, ho, ho to you too Roses
May all your ch...And a ho, ho, ho to you too Roses<br /><br />May all your christmases come at once<br /><br />GraffitiTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-90436423723107747282009-12-25T07:50:13.793+08:002009-12-25T07:50:13.793+08:00Hey Graffiti,
I popped over to wish you a Merry Ch...Hey Graffiti,<br />I popped over to wish you a Merry Christmas.<br /><br />Merry Christmas.<br />I spotted you delisted me as a blog-friend.<br /><br />Why?Kahlesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00500615451909999365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-51351755653773459382009-12-25T05:12:07.984+08:002009-12-25T05:12:07.984+08:00Merry Christmas Mr Graffiti, and a very happy New ...Merry Christmas Mr Graffiti, and a very happy New Year to you.<br /><br />Rosesroseshttp://mymindurplace.blogstream.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-70053483588122724322009-12-24T17:48:17.387+08:002009-12-24T17:48:17.387+08:00Lets hope 2010 is productive for you and your blog...Lets hope 2010 is productive for you and your blog as well Shruti and there may be more online magazine activity<br /><br />Cheers<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-20083932884314373642009-12-24T10:45:46.524+08:002009-12-24T10:45:46.524+08:00You are too kind Tony..
i use my pen name..shradd...You are too kind Tony..<br /><br />i use my pen name..shraddha , just for privacy purposes!<br /><br />Merry Christmas..<br /><br />Hope you will like my new blog too :)( i started in june so its not too new now!!!..but i am seeing lot of interest and things have been great so far)...i got interviewed too by 2 online magazines!!!<br /><br />I am on twitter too as selfloveblog<br /><br />Your friend<br />Shrutishraddhahttp://www.theselfloveproject.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-71638201224599972762009-12-24T09:08:25.002+08:002009-12-24T09:08:25.002+08:00Hi April,
That is a good example of how a system ...Hi April,<br /><br />That is a good example of how a system can work. Lets both ignore what's going on, and the family therapist would work with that like you say you are doing. By stopping ignoring the system has now become unbalanced and both parties will be forced to change in some way so that homeostatsis can be restored.<br /><br />I wish you and your husband all the best for 2010.<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-64603215506347316892009-12-24T09:04:16.023+08:002009-12-24T09:04:16.023+08:00Hello Shruti,
What a surprise and a good christma...Hello Shruti,<br /><br />What a surprise and a good christmas present to hear from you!<br /><br />I see you are back in the blogosphere. Can I put you on my blogroll?<br /><br />Cheers<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-42319837457686054952009-12-24T05:45:38.433+08:002009-12-24T05:45:38.433+08:00very nice one Tony!
I have to agree and personall...very nice one Tony!<br /><br />I have to agree and personally relate...<br /><br />The people who are in saving mode loose their bearings when there is nothing left to save...<br /><br />shrutishraddhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13549183128453714957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-66434198058163352382009-12-24T00:49:05.182+08:002009-12-24T00:49:05.182+08:00I like the last paragraph a lot. I recently had to...I like the last paragraph a lot. I recently had to confront the fact that my husband is very depressed, even suicidal, and I apologized to him for contributing to that. He said it's not my fault, but by allowing him to get that way, I feel it is. I've been ignoring it/hoping it would resolve itself, even if I don't realize it. So we're working on what we can do to restore his happiness.Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13545902890959118689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-39743919828278823762009-12-23T18:47:25.397+08:002009-12-23T18:47:25.397+08:00Hello kenoath,
I suppose that is true that the mo...Hello kenoath,<br /><br />I suppose that is true that the more resilient family members there are the better off the family would be.<br /><br />Merry Xmas<br /><br />TonyTony Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07034697658099080220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3289688322615470169.post-48186391114032782532009-12-23T18:29:26.133+08:002009-12-23T18:29:26.133+08:00Gives new meaning to attribution Tony. However if ...Gives new meaning to attribution Tony. However if one is influenced by these dynamics and visa versa then it would only take a couple of brave and resilient members in the family to change the ill family.<br /><br /> kenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com