Showing posts with label narcissistic. Show all posts
Showing posts with label narcissistic. Show all posts

Sunday, July 21, 2013

Teenager and criminal personality thinking


In the previous post - Problems with polygraph lie detection - I talked about the psychology of the anti social personality. I think this below is quite a good summary of it except for number 2. One simply has to go into a prison and one finds many low IQ anti social personalities. As I have mentioned before the teenager and the criminal personality have some similarities in the way they think.

Eleven features of the antisocial

The Bali 9 are a group of nine teenagers and young adults who tried to smuggle drugs through Bali (Indonesia). They got caught and now a few are on death row and the others have long terms of imprisonment. The press have followed their plight as they are so young and Australians on death row in other countries tends to attract attention in the press.

A recent news article on them gave quotations of what three of them were thinking at the time of doing the crime. The three quotes.

1.  “I was young and basically I thought I was invincible”

2. “The only thing I was thinking, really, was to make some money, quick money.”

3. “You think it’s not going to happen to me. It happens to other people. I’m lucky.” 
“Looking for adventure, never been out of the country before, I thought, Yeah, why not.“

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These are good examples of how the anti social and the teenager can think

1. A sense on invincibility and hence a lack of anxiety
2. The sense of simply not thinking it through and what is called a lack of foresight. The anti social and the teenager are very good at living in the here and now and not worrying about the future. They have the ability to just not think about it.
3. A sense of specialness and uniqueness and that the rules don’t apply to me. Also a lack of foresight and not thinking it through by seeing it as some kind of adventure to go through.
Also not one of them displayed any understanding of the immorality of what they were doing and hence a lack of conscience.

These thinking styles show why the deterrent effect of the law has little impact on such people as they believe the rules in some way do not apply to them and they will end up OK in the end.

It should also be noted that there are also some similarities between the anti social personality and the narcissist. Indeed I recently stated on a blog that whilst working in prison I would have diagnosed more narcissists than anti socials even though logically that does not make sense. Then my friend Rita told me about the work of Robert Hare on psychopathy. He states that the psychopath is a mixture of aggressive narcissism and anti social traits. Which reassured me that perhaps my diagnostic skills were not all that wonky.

Balance

Suicide and teenage thinking
As said above anti social and teenage thinking can be quite ‘wrong’ and in extreme cases this can lead to a very tragic outcomes such as ending up on death row like some of the Bali 9.

The other case is with suicidal behaviour and why in my book - Working with suicidal individuals - I suggest one predictor of suicidality is does the person “think like a teenager”?.  Do they have the thinking errors as cited above? One way of assessing this is to ask the person about their post-suicide fantasy. What do they think the outcome will be after the suicide attempt and this can identify teenage style thinking if in some way they see them selves as surviving in some form, or being able to observe how others react afterwards, or have some kind of consciousness afterwards and so forth.

Teenagers are a difficult group when it comes to suicidal behaviour as the type of  thinking being discussed here makes them less predictable. At the same time it puts them at higher risk because they do not fully comprehend the outcome of their suicidal actions, just as the Bali 9 did not fully comprehend the outcome of their actions and just like the criminal personality does not fully comprehend the outcome of their criminal actions.

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Tuesday, January 22, 2013

The development of personality types


Deb from facebook asks if the anti social personality is created as a defence mechanism.

Generally speaking most would see that to be the case along with all 10 personality types listed here in addition to the core belief of each one.

Personality type core beliefs

Most theories would say that as the child grows it makes decisions about life. It picks up stories it liked as child and uses these to create a template (or life script) about how to live and what life is going to be like for them. This would tend to be mainstream thinking on the subject and thus would tend to agree with the assertion which Deb makes. The child picks the particular personality type as a way of adapting or defending against what it sees as adverse circumstances in childhood. All children get stressed and suffer varying degrees of trauma. It is in these times especially that they choose which defence they will have and some of those are listed in the diagram above.

I however would suggest there is an exception to this and that is the narcissistic personality and to a lesser degree the anti social personality type. With all the other types the child grows into them as a defence but with these two it is different. Instead the child never grows out of them.

All children are born narcissistic and to a lesser extent anti social. Freud called this primary narcissism. All children are born completely narcissistic and the goal is to grow out of that narcissism. Thus one could say that the adult who has a narcissistic personality never achieved this. He didn’t grow into the narcissistic personality type as a defence instead he just never grew out of it. In this way the narcissistic personality type is unique amongst all the other personality types.

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Back to the original point about the anti social. It is somewhat similar in this way to the narcissist but to a lesser degree. For instance many anti socials have very little empathy for others. All children are born with no empathy. They are out for number 1 and if others suffer along the way then so be it. People acquire the skill of empathy later in life. They have to grow into it. The anti social personality never does this. They do not grow into a lack of empathy as a way of coping instead they just never grew out of a lack of empathy like most others do.

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